Beginning November

Autumn is a good time for reflection and recuperation and live life at a slower pace when you can after work in the evenings and weekends.

I’m grateful for the Hybrid working pattern, now it’s 3 days in the office and 2 working from home.

Love the drive in the countryside to work. This week it’s been dangerous with torrential rain, trees fallen down, flooded roads making traffic jams and sadly accidents. 😩

My town was gridlocked with traffic jams and flooded streets. Had to give going to the Health Club a miss in the week but thankfully got there today for Aqua Fit. While I was in the car I went shopping.

A friend went into hospital so no Wednesday Fellowship Group this week. Nice to have the night in 😜.

Dark evenings – the season of winter. I am grateful for the chance to slow the pace. Cost of living rises is a contribution to this. But since Covid doing less has been beneficial. Even when I met up with a friend who lives locally we spent a lot of time staying local, eating in and watching films at home. It has been lovely. ❤️

You can enjoy your life without spending lots of money.

Everyone is feeling the changes in our cost of living making everything so expensive.

My favourite band – http://www.the-big-blue.com/listings.html Been a follower since 2012. Going to see them play in various locations in East Sussex. I keep this as a commitment at least once a month.

I am quite good with money. I buy my food and snacks for work from the supermarket. Take sandwiches every day.

Other things I buy via subscription on Amazon – heavy goods like the cat food gets 15% off when ordered with 4 other items and is delivered too.

I understand the philosophy of paying by cash and locally – great for non chain businesses but some items these days are really hard to get hold of in the local store

For example bereavement/sympathy cards, can never buy them locally any more.

Got invited to opportunities to make addition income. Have a few meetings to listen in on this weekend.

I am just going to cook a small roast pork joint for myself to eat Will be ok for tomorrow too. Managed to buy some parsnips. I never think a roast is the same without parsnips. 😜

October

This month seems to have past by quite fast.

I only have one regular commitment in the week because my working weeks and days for locations are never the same. If I could do three days working from home and two in the office I could have regular commitments.

Healthwise, I try and squeeze in going to the health club either morning before work at 6am or in the early evening after working from home about 18.45pm. My daughter goes twice a week so I can go with her. A bit gruelling after work but easier going with someone else.

Spiritually –

keeping strife out of my life ‘requires willingness to constantly communicate and confront issues… prayerfully ask for the Holy Spirit’s help to be a person who avoids strife and restores peace everywhere. It’s not a simple task, people have their own inner convictions on what is right or wrong for them.

I have the calling on my life – Servant Leadership – selfless love in everything – : “(Philippians 2:4 Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others”

Galatians 5:14 – Love your neighbour as yourself – have an unselfish concern for others and do things for their benefit.

(John 13:34-35).

Love one another as I have loved you.

My daytime job as public servant in the local government requires me to uphold their services and not be judgemental which is in line with my faith. Not to discriminate against anyone even though I do not always agree with their way of life.

I walked another ten miles to raise money for Tear Fund – a charity my church – All Saints Church supports. – Tearfund Disaster Relief is a Christian charity working in more than 50 countries 🌎such as the Ukrainian humanitarian crisis, the East African food crises & the Pakistan flood crises. I raised £90 thanks to the generosity of my friends.

A great contrast in weather conditions here in Eastbourne . September was really lovely weather and I really caught the sun and it was sweltering hot.?This walk was a challenge with the blustery wind, rain and muddy conditions.

Someone gave me a bin bag to put over my head. 😀

Have to keep the fitness regime going as I’ve committed to walk again next September this time 50k this time up in London walking along the Thames.

Yesterday I walked into my town and back.

Now the clocks have gone back and it’s officially Autumn/ Winter it will be important to take a walk lunch time every day while the sun is shining or even if it isn’t otherwise the mornings will be dark and evenings too. Shorter days.

This Tuesday is All Saints’ Day (Or All Hallows’ Day in old English) which means that Monday evening is All Hallows’ Eve – known by nearly everyone these days as ‘Halloween’. Traditionally All Saints’ was a day to remember and celebrate those who have “Died in Christ”- those who have lived lives reflecting Jesus’ love and have now “gone to glory.”  Indeed, in countries such as Poland, All Saints’ Day is still celebrated by families gathering together to put candles on the graves of loved ones – and by Monday evening Polish cemeteries will be aglow with the light of millions of candles.

Our British Halloween traditions originate from village communities where local children would dress up to mock the “powers of darkness” on their last evening of influence before their defeat when All Saints’ Day dawned. 

These celebrations weren’t a sign of evil’s power – quite the opposite – they were a celebration of Christ’s victory over evil.

But modern Halloween celebrations seem to have turned in a much darker direction, with shops filled with increasingly dark and unsettling costumes. Gone is the light-hearted teasing of a defeated enemy. Instead there seems to be an embrace of wickedness, with none on the light of All Saints’ Day.

We live in a world where evil and pain really exist and whilst many will see this years Halloween celebrations as harmless fun, it may come at an unseen and unintended cost. Are we looking towards the light or are we wrapping ourselves in darkness?

See you in November….

September

September went fast.

Ultra Challenge Day went well. Met a few new people (women) that enjoyed walking. Discussed doing a similar challenge next year. I said it would need to be flatter, enjoyed the sunshine and got a lot of exercise. My feet survived it. No blisters thankfully.

Week 2 – not so good- thought I had a Gastritis flare up, chemist gave me “Milk of Magnesia” which really seemed to give me a burning sensation in my gut. For a long time, I was unable to eat anything. Just drinking sips of water and lying in bed due to having a fever. Went back to work on the Thursday and found two others had had the same issue.

Week 3 – my long awaited vacation but due to a type of gastric flu not able to venture out too much. Most plans for this week cancelled because of the death of Queen Elisabeth.

In a way I was grateful not to have to go up to London even though I had been looking forward to seeing my Entrepreneurial friends. Not seen them in person since before lockdown/covid. Actually, I’ve not been on a train since before Covid either.

I have just been driving in my car and using the bus. Started my Sussex Gospel Partnership Bible Study Course, one a month for 2 years.

Week 3- On my week off I went to the local health club, went to watch some friends playing in their bands at various venues in Hastings.

Week 4 – Then I was fortunate to be able to work from home for a few weeks.

Discovered I had lost 10kilos. Now I can wear my super dry jacket again.

Keen to keep up the fitness regime. Making sure I actively walk or go to the gym weekly to walk on the treadmill.

Bahia Princip Ambar

So far so good and nothing to complain about. We can see all the staff here work really hard to maintain a good service and keep the establishment, grounds and services running smoothly to meet expectations.

We are really enjoying being in the lovely hot sunshine and the variety of cuisine available every day.

We came to the conclusion that our Amber Hotel has the best eating places – adult’s only is much more tranquil than sharing space with families and children.

Likewise by the pool.

Lovely, also to have a swim up pool. Today, we are sitting here. I need to sit in the cool shade due to sunburn on my forehead. Made me feel a bit lightheaded today.

I love a bit of peace and quite. Can still hear the music played by the pool here.

Lunch today just chips followed by fruit.

Bahia Principe Hotels – Hotel Ambar..

Finally the day came and we flew out to the Dominican Republic to stay at Punta Cana. Took twenty one hours door to door. Left our home at 4.30am to fly to the airport. Flight took off at 9.30am. There is a time difference of four hours.

We are staying at Bahia Principe Hotels – Hotel Ambar which is an Adults only hotel.

Well it is very beautiful here. Set in beautiful gardens. Palm trees, green grass verges and water swim ups to selected rooms.

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In the last couple of years despite Covid-19 we have tried to make the most of our National Trust Membership and visit local places as well as going to other towns here in the UK.

We did manage to go to Buckinghamshire and visited – Stowe House which s a grade I listed country house in Stowe, Buckinghamshire, England. It is the home of Stowe School, an independent school and is owned by the Stowe House Preservation Trust who have to date spent more than £25m on the restoration of the house.

We also visited the Waddesdon Manor, which is managed by the Rothschild Foundation (charitable trust) on behalf of the National Trust. 

We were able to find a location to stay with the Airbnb booking engine. We also use Booking.com – we pay for our vacations using the Revolut card and get cash back on transactions

#NewYearNewMe #2022

I signed up with Seacret in 2020

Finally, went on the trip of a lifetime – beautiful Dominican Republic in the Punta Cana region.

Wonderful experience, would love to go again. The hotel Luxury Ambar is available to be booked via Club Secret Travel Club!

On the long haul flight of nearly eight hours, gives time for reflection. This lifestyle is wonderful, great service and all your needs taken care of when you travel “Premium”

This lifestyle standard is affordable if you make sacrifices and travel less frequently or sign up for a sustainable programme that gives you benefits and your can earn more money by sharing the concept with others.

My Entrepreneurial pursuits these days are in my “free-time” my side hustle. I now have a full time job too.

My businesses run off the internet – marketing efforts are on the social selling platforms which sync with various devices.

Marketing on the move – leads present themselves via notifications and emails through out the working day and can be followed up in “free-time”

Time to discuss and network – make an appointment to talk to me. Again in my free-time.

Maybe it sounds harsh but necessary to fit all activities in.

Basically it is necessary to respect everyone’s time and network with people that share this ethos.

Looked at various platforms that are encrypted with safety measures .Telegram seems to be a firm favourite, WhatsApp and Zoom for video one to ones. Those on Apple can utilise FACETIME via WiFi. Corporate entities us Microsoft Teams.

This year Seacret have begun to consider distribution to Europe with the Nutritional Products. USA, & Canada has already had the head start with this, also they were able to grow a customer base. Now NFR can benefit from this too – also now people can be customers.

USA, Canada , Columbia & Mexico start on 3 January 2022 to 3 March 2022 with the “Club Fit Challenge”

I wanted to start my “Club Fit Challenge “ this Spring, but have had to put it back to the summer.

Seriously, I haven’t been into physical fitness since my accidents in 2013. Recently joined a local gym and started working up a speed on the treadmill.

My Apple Watch benefits me on a daily basis, records all movement data and this is now shared with my profile on the club’s wellness app.

Fitness app shows a summary -Move – Exercise and Standing. Being told to stand at various inter lies can be a great benefit

My last move goal was doubled in November 2021, then I had my vacation and then Christmas. So beginning to NewYearNewMe is a challenge, but it will be worth it to get fit and stay fit an encourage others to do the same and others looking to earn an additional income can sign up and be part of this world wide international team.

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It’s Here – The Lifestyle Upgrade

Together we can achieve more.!!

I love working remotely and have done so on and off since 1993.  I found it very beneficial while bringing up my two children who are now adults.

I enjoyed working from home and being available to go to the school and joining in with their outings, helping with lunchtime clubs and afterschool clubs. My work fitted in between.

I had learnt some online skills and was able to find small business enterprises, here in the UK and globally who were offering similar services.]

Working globally via an internet connection gave me opportunities, At local business clubs I was offering #OnlineMarketing it was new, people didn’t think it would take off and now it’s a popular skill to learn and receive tangible results.

While working #freelancer I was part of the remote team for the online business club #Ecademy. Through #Ecademy I joined their premium membership #Blackstar and was able to attend workshops and learnt the benefits of networking which evolved my business skills and I was able to create a service to offer other people  > Social Media support/creating and social selling.

We undertook several profiling assessments with view to improve teamwork and networking.

I love travel and meeting other people from different cultures and in 2012 I joined a Travel and Lifestyle club. The opportunity to travel, meet other like-minded people and I was particularly drawn to their self development programme because the church I was involved with also enlightened me to the fact I was “Born for More”

Thanks to the leadership of Marc Accetta via Marc Accetta seminars I am on a journey to develop a positive mindset and this is leading to an opportunity to  have a Life Style Upgrade   

Not to sink and feel like our glass is half empty, but to realise it is half full and rising because we have made the decision to believe that thanks to this opportunity and the people we share it with team effort will create us a good living and have the life we have always wanted and the assets we thought we could never afford.