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Be Teachable To Be Reachable-
Be teachable to be reachable… I was inspired to write this blog today after reading this message from today ‘s UCB’s Word for Today – go and read it and follow @ucbmedia
We are very intelligent yet our preconceived notions can doom us to failure in life.
Assumptions, rigidity, and force of habit can cause us to keep doing things that don’t work and make no sense.
Dr James Dobson says: ‘Until 1992 I wrote books with pencils and yellow pads. I did that for years after word processors were available. The twentieth century was almost over before I decided to join it.’ Imaging how frustrated this man’s Peers would be with him?
How many people do we know that have this fear to abandon an their old belief system making learning new skills or tackling a new project really difficult to grasp in this technology driven age.
Why are you afraid to abandon an old belief system, or learn a new skill, or tackle a new project? When you’re finished learning, you’re finished! The only real limitations are those we place on ourselves by refusing to learn. ‘
In the Bible (Proverbs 9:9 NKJV). Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be still wiser; teach a just man, and he will increase in learning’.(Proverbs 18:15 NKJV)‘The heart of the prudent acquires knowledge, and the ear of the wise seeks knowledge’ (Proverbs 18:15 NKJV). Don’t let your fears and preconceived ideas keep you from growing; be teachable.
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In March 2016 I travel to Belgrade, Serbia
Travelling to Belgrade, Serbia was very much a spur of the moment decision! I decided that if there was somewhere to stay I would go. A friend said her companion was ill and unable to travel so i could take her place.
The reason for the trip was World Ventures, Momentum and despite being a representative for over six years my first training event.
The day started off quite early as i had to travel to Heathrow Airport to meet them. All was well and we arrived safely despite having to change in Munich and sadly our luggage getting left behind. This incident has never happened to me before in all my years of travelling. It was uncomfortable to say the least not to have my toiletries and a change of clothes when I arrived.
I guess staying in such a lovely hotel and the wonderful breakfast made up for the problem of no luggage. Our luggage wasn’t going to arrive until the afternoon so we went off and visited the town in Belgrade and saw some local touristic spots. We had lunch in a small cafe. Belgrade are still allowing smoking in their establishments and finding one that wasn’t packed out with smokers was a bit of a challenge!!
Well Momentum was amazing, I was able to listen and digest quite a few tips on how to prospect and it was exciting to see how other people shared their own personal journey in the business and how the personal development has made a bit impact to their lives.
I made some new friends and committed myself to going to Bootcamp in Rome in May 2016. Seemed like a long time away but now it is just next week!!
Since the Serbia trip I have travelled lighter and just had the cabin bag with just what I need. Lighter to take just need to remember the airline policies with regards to liquids.
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What is your Passion and Purpose?
My passion and purpose is to be an Entrepreneur and to inspire others to use their gifts. It all started with the fact that our family history on my Father’s side originates from the Native Sioux Indian, via Grandmother who was in the Entertainments Business with Buffalo Bill‘s Circus
Sioux Indian’s are very spiritual – I have to confess to not knowing that much about them sadly but I do know and understand that they were very Psychic – and my Father had inherited the gift of Psychometry. He was very good at this and helped a lot of people. Lots of people came to our home to have a consultation.
I had a really good relationship with my father until my mother and I joined the local Church of England Church and I was confirmed in 1971. I think following the Christian faith and spiritually it was rather conflicting. Spiritualism is part of the Occult – Darkness v Light. after my Confirmation my father and I didn’t get along so well.
I was musical, was involved with singing and I learnt to play the guitar at school, participated in the choir and our school regularly put on concerts and musicals, both at my junior and the secondary school that I attended though being a Christian at school was another conflicting situation, so I didn’t have many friends and when I left school I went straight into Banking. I worked hard but didn’t get promotion and then was introduced to a job at the local theatre setting up the drinks in the interval. For seven years I used to work over 60 hours a week, in the Bank during the day and at the Theatre in the evenings.
In my early twenties I was re-united with my school friend who had chosen to go into the Hairdressing profession and she led me into Network Marketing, while I was out and about in the evening with Party Planning I met my future husband,
From time to time I had gone along and had the occasional Tarot card reading, which strangely enough from time to time was quite accurate and just before I was due to marry I went and had my birth chart drawn up. Sadly, I lost the information but did remember that I was told not to get married to this person, that we would be in conflict all the time! Well, it was too late to back out and hurt a lot of people so we got married in 1993 and had two lovely children, who are now teenagers and a great credit to us both, but sadly our relationship didn’t survive and we divorced in 2002.
SERVANT
When i had my birth-chart drawn up I was also advised that I was going to be a “Servant” “Writer” and also a “Nurse”
Well life being a journey and all these possibilities didn’t seem like they would happen to me at the time.
The years that followed the marriage break-up have been challenging and I have been glad of my involvement with the Church as a solid foundation to build my life on the ROCK of Jesus Christ. I committed my life to Jesus and became “Born Again” in 1997, my son was born in this year and also my Mother past away.
In my early twenties through to my late thirties I was on the committee for a local social club and had a very active social life also so community building is something I have learnt with recruiting people into the club
When my children were at their junior school I used to be a leader via the church with their youth club, I undertook this position for seven years. This also led me to go into their school with other church leaders for the “Jesus and Me Club”called “JAM Club”
In 2002 – I went back to college as a mature student and undertook the City and Guilds Diploma in IT ( the link is for info – I studied at Sussex Downs College, Eastbourne) and also changed my church and joined the Christian Outreach Centre Movement and undertook the Spirit, Soul and Body Bible School for two years. Within the Church we undertook the D.I.S.C personality test and this is where I then understood the concept the Servant and Servant Leadership.
Click on the link above to read the section “Characteristics of being a Servant Leader”
Thankfully due to my working life I have gained the experience to be a good communicator and I am competent to make decisions. My Spiritual Gifts give me the discernment to pay attention to what remains unspoken and it is therefore important to listen to my inner voice\affimation from the Holy Spirit. I can rely on that inner voice in order to understand what the body, mind and spirit are communicating. I really love technology and I have been willing to follow and learn from the Social Media Experts and Geeks to learn all i can and now my ideal client is someone who is a true Entrepreneur. Combing with my passion for music really gives me the passion to help Musicians though i am willing to extend my services to everyone connected with the Entertainments Industry. In the past three years I have got involved with the local “Rock Music Community of Bands and Supporters and have made connectiions and new friends via their Community in London and World-wide.
WRITER –
I created this Blog – Daily Ramblings of a Professional Networker
to portray the “Life of Networking” online and offline. A diary of life experiences. I have had severe writer’s block for the past two years when i started to combine it with “Encouragement and Life Coaching” I had started to train to be a “Life Coach” but finding the people who wanted a coach and also the people i wanted to coach was a challenge. This is something i have had to put on hold temporarily for the time being though I pro-actively work as a Personal IT Coach and share articles and write articles that i share as a Social Media Expert.
NURSE
I am about to embark on a course to train to be a Carer in the Community. I will be looking after people that rely on someone to come in and help them to remain independant by staying in their own homes. I will be doing this on a part time basis so i can also continue with my passion and purpose as an Entrepreneur to network with those that have the heart-felt motivation to inspire others to use their Entreprenerial Talents especially in the Entertainments Industry…
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Friday I’m in Love
Friday I’m in Love – was a blog I wrote last year that explained about my love for networking and going out and meeting other Entrepreneurs. The event I wrote about was at the Business Franchise Exhibition at the ExCeL London Exhibition and Convention Centre, where I was allocated to chair a mock-up for a Boardroom in alliance with the Ecademy Business Network
Last Friday I went to a local free networking event to meet up with someone I made contact with on Twitter who advised me that she has been following my Tweets for a few weeks and had read my recently blog and identified with my situation.
We identified the strengths and weaknesses that we both come across in our daily work and agreed to see if we could collaborate to form an alliance.
Now I will be putting together a proposal for her to view to make plans to move ahead.
Why do we allow our thoughts to give us limitations? (1)
The fear of loss is a motivating factor if it can propel you in to action, .however you may in the beginning be paralysed with negative thoughts that stop you changing your mindset and doing things differently…
Life is very challenging for me at present and also I can empathise with those near and dear to me that are also finding that they have challenges to overcome.
We had an interesting morning in our church on Sunday, Pastors Ashley and Ruth Schmierer were our guest speakers. Ps Ashley was talking about how he had been limited as a child by the negative comments his teachers had made about him. That he was the clown in the class and that they didn’t think he would amount to anything. He is now the COC International President.
Ps Ashley, was speaking about how we allow our thoughts to give us limitations on what we can achieve in our lives.
For those of us that have a FAITH /Christianity is about having a relationship with Jesus via prayer, praise and reading the Bible, those that have given their life to him and invited the Holy Spirit to live in them then can understand the scriptures and the power in them to transform lives. It is also important to have Christian fellowship, always there will be people in the body of Christ that you don’t see eye to eye with, but you can also find people that you do get along with and these people will inspire and encourage you in you daily walk and you can do the same for them. I have found FACEBOOK really powerful for this and daily connect and share content with my fellow Christian connections all over the world.
In our every day lives we have to get along with people that have no faith at all and we do our best to get along with them as we care about them as they are our friends.
In the case of the work place we find that we have to adhere to the thoughts and intentions of those of whom do not follow the same mindset. This is where the root of negative thinking starts to rise… Other people’s perspectives start to cloud our thinking.
In the case of the working environment you might have to follow the plan and purpose for someone else’s business…, you might well find yourself in the same situation that happened to me that someone used a rather calculated method to gain my attention and support.
Have you heard about the Chameleon in the Office scenario?
Do read the interesting blog written by my colleague- Blackstar Sharon Egan – I actually I winced when I first read it –The third paragraph down was in fact the very thing that snared me– “So, when with you, they’ll mirror your beliefs, your values, your attitudes… and, because of that, create fantastic rapport with you. You’d think they were your best buddy..-Apparently, this is a ploy taught in sales and in particular network-marketing. Of course in my case – I am a “Connector” sitting on a rather a large database of names which is appealing to people that are building lists of people to contact.
My personality in business is Servant Leadership- with the main concern of helping someone else to achieve their purpose and goals…I align myself to the people with the same mindset…
Coming back to the shared mindset and what would actually attract you to work with someone to see that their goal to earn a living happened and what would you feel like when the truth dawned on you that their why had changed so much that you had that gut feeling that now life was treating them so well (not through their own efforts might I add) the initial effort that they seemed to put in currently was none existent… I can remember when I first got started first words given to me were we are here to build the network and forget about the product.
Leadership requires patience and perseverance; I also think that to really take heed and respect the circumstances of others is important. I think back now and wonder why did I align myself up with people that really didn’t care at all about the plans and purposes of others, why did I get swept away with the dream that this was going to be the way forward for me….
There are however, people in this business who are doing exceedingly well and are making the money that gives them the lifestyle that is promised, those with a true heart of a team spirit.
In the very beginning I know I was on to a winner as the money came through as a result of prayer and it all worked well for the first six months or so, then people that joined the team all dropped away and those that are left are not in it to build the team, just there for the enjoyment of the product. Fundamentally, core values of a Servant Leadership – not just about looking after yourself but about looking after other people. Therefore encouraging people that have no surplus income over and above existing expenses to overspend is immoral. Also, coming back to the beginning regarding negative comments building a team based on “Trusting relationships as the foundation for collaboration and service, affirming that all relationships should be based on trust and mutual respect, not power, status or coercion. Coercion – (like a form of bullying, threats or
intimidation.)
Taking all of these circumstances into consideration I now realise why that breakthrough that I really needed to happen hasn’t…..
Who has viewed your LinkedIn profile recently?
I have a vast network across the networks, I am not as active on LinkedIn as I could be, though I post this Blog and the link is shared on the profile.
The power of technology assist to keep your profile viable to others
‘If you would go every day to a very large tree and take five swings at it with a very sharp axe, eventually, no matter how large the tree, it would have to come down!!!
Basically, it is the same with Network-Marketing, in this case the FREE DREAM_TRIP you offer people the chance to have a free vacation, all they need to do is register and watch this movie – http://connector.windreamtrips.com Some people you ask won’t bother as they don’t believe you when you tell them there is no catch. Some people start watching the movie and when they see what it speaks about they give up half-way through so they then don’t activate the email that states they have watched the movie, so they don’t get in to the draw. Some people say point blank they don’t want the opportunity. Some of the people that actually watch the movie, may see and understand the opportunity and know it is for them, these are the people that I will work with. Well to find these people it is almost like looking for a needle in a Haystack. It wasn’t until I got involved with this business that I began to see how many negative and unmotivated people there were around, my own friends and relatives included!
Well, it is a numbers game to find those few people you need to ask just about everyone you come in contact with. So basically, you are back to this trust element – would people you have never spoken to before actually believe that out of the blue a total stranger would be offering them an opportunity to have a free vacation, no strings attracted! Sounds wildly unlikely doesn’t it – though in this case it is true as I am sure that if I persevere with my dream to achieve the living and a better lifestyle I will find other people who want to have the same.
I was taught a number of years back that the plan in a Christian’s walk was to be blessed so that in turn I would be able to give and bless others. Recently, someone sneered that it was a bad suggestion to be wealthy, but in fact the aim to be wealthy is to be in the position to give back to the community
