Disappearing People

Gravitate towards others who stay calm when met with friction. When you stay composed you stay in control. Calm isn’t passivity it’s precision under pressure.

Power may also be assumed to be action, but real power is what you resist.

Anyone can retaliate, but the person that sees the whole picture not the next move wins over time.

When you step up and trust your values more than your emotions. Resisting the temptation to lower your standards!

Power begins in the daily routine, the way you prepare, plan and show up on days when motivation doesn’t exist.

Daily discipline frees you from being tossed around by every demand, mood or distraction..

A strong person doesn’t fight to be seen or beg to be heard, nor do they demand your attention or try to convince you of their value as they know their worth and won’t compete for your respect, they will stop showing up for you when they realise that their standards are dismissed and they have shown loyalty and not people been valued.

Now life begins to align around the boundary you finally had the courage to enforce.

Protect your peace, as this affects your tone, clarity and creativity. So silence the noise, say no without guilt and step away with grace.

I’ve made a few mistakes, I’ve upset people with my decisions which haven’t aligned with theirs. But, I do not want to be controlled by other people’s viewpoints unless I am in agreement.

In 2025 I disappeared myself for a bit. It was out of choice, I was diagnosed with Glaucoma and I had to go and have emergency eye surgery to save my eye sight. Then, I had a long period of time waiting for my eyes to recover so I could go back to the opticians to get new glasses. In this time I was unable to drive. Thankfully, there were offers from friends to take me to the hospital which was 20 miles away. On one occasion I did go by train and walked quite a distance which was a little distressing as I couldn’t see all that well.

During this time at home I kept occupied by my entrepreneurial pursuits. I was able to listen to trainings and join in with a few zoom calls so I didn’t feel so isolated being at home on my own. I was blessed to have a gorgeous summer and venture out locally to sit on the seafront

Sadly, a friend I had known for many years had a breakdown, followed by a heart attack which brought on early dementia, this resulted in him having to be sectioned and omitted into psychiatric care. This has been a shock to me as he was part of my social circle for 35 years. I went to see him a couple of time and heard yesterday they have finally found a care home for him to stay in which will be easier for his family to reach by bus.

A number of Blackstar networking collegues past away!

Glad I made the effort to have a 121 with Andrew Widgery down at the Waitrose Cafe in Chichester in 2024. Wonderful to hear him speak about his love for his family and gratefulness that his girls had all found wonderful men to partner up and expressing his joy for the new grandson and another one on the way. He told me that he had received treatment and that drug was destroying his cancer lesions and his words to me were that he had been given extra time to love his family and all the special people in his life. Though sadly, not as much time as we were all hoping because Andrew past away on 27.7.24.

Very sad as he was “kicking cancer” ticking more things of his bucket list….

Then on 23 July 2025, we lost Maurice Watts, I regrettably was unable to join in with the “Chez Maurice-Marketing zooms as I was working, nor get to meet him or travel to visit him in hospital as it was too far away.

Maurice was a good friend to me during the Blackstar Ecademy days. Gave me some marketing mentoring, shared knowledge and helped me navigate by way back to the tube stations after our networking events…

Mick Say past away on the cliff tops while out walking with his wife and friends on 25 November 2025, apparently he slipped and banged his head but never regained consciousness.

He loved technology, I did some freelance work for him when we were all trying to create data using Klout, Rise and the game Empire Avenue. He also lately was sharing his accomplishments on #strava.

ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE

Attitude of Gratitude .

I want to express my gratitude for my connections and reflect on the valuable experiences we’ve shared through our collaborations and the communities we’ve been part of.

Your support has been instrumental in our collective success. and I truly appreciate the journey we’ve taken together .

With my entrepreneurial pursuits I understand the concept that working as a team and building a community can have outstanding results. Not a one man show, everyone plays a part, no matter how small.

Many of us have missed out on a lot of opportunities. In theses days and age there are so many projects, literally tens of thousands out there and even thousands launch every single day.

Scepticism, lack of time, money and fear because of the lack of skill set has held us back from committing and getting involved

I have always sought to support individuals who, like myself start at ground level and are willing to adapt and grow on their journey to success.

Despite the decline in some industries there are still plenty of equally valuable opportunities available.

There will always be a better product or better system, but it’s how we relate to ourselves, the project and how the community come together that creates the amazing team and community.

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We Are All In This Together….

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Those on a low income are more effected by high food and energy prices. There doesn’t seem to be an end to it. 🤨

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“Don’t Hold A Pity Party for Me!”

——You will be there alone – I won’t be there.——

One of things I always remember the Pastor from my other church saying don’t have a “Pity Party” She also told me not to harbour a victim’s mentality. It’s good sounds advice!!!

We do have control over our own behaviour and how we act and respond to events and different circumstances.

When you continually think negatively all you do is draw more negativity towards you. Thinking positively and acting that way is a mindset that needs to be cultivated.

What you think about on a daily basis defines how you behave and your daily actions. When you begin to take responsibility for yourself and start setting yourself achievable goals to improve your mental health (mind/soul) physical health (body) spirit (faith, hope, love, character and perseverance)

My daily life begins in the morning with prayers for others and prayers for myself which come from the bible ending with putting on the “Armour of God.”

Then I read my bible plans. It’s a daily discipline, I have to wake up earlier to undertake it all before I leave the house, but it leaves me feeling Positive and Motivated for my day ahead.

I continually keep an account of requests to God throughout the day. We forget our dependency on God, but he will transform ordinary days into those filled with Hope and Opportunity.

I recently went away on a trip with my daughter and I asked God to help me not to snore! She said she hardly heard me snoring and it was great to sleep without feeling her elbows between my shoulder blades trying to wake me up. 😀

We know or can learn to understand that we are all unique and have our own spiritual gifts, when we apply these to our work we have success.

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Are You Exploring A New Direction for 2023 – 😜

2020 – 2022 have been challenging years for all of us, but in every adversity lies the seed of an equal or greater opportunity.

We may feel depleted, emotional and overwhelmed by events which can make us feel we want to retract and do nothing. But it is important to join forces with others, seek God in prayer and push forward.

We know we must keep moving forward and remain positive and expect life to go better for us. When we remain positive and have inner conviction new doors open up.

My passion is Entrepreneurialism, encouraging and supporting others to reach their potential.

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Makes ethical and principle-centered decisions. …
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Integrity.

Juggling life with family, maintaining a prayer life, bible study and belief in myself and what I could achieve.

” I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” .

My journey as an Entrepreneur had some challenges, striving to be seen as a expert online with Social Media Marketing and earning an income to put food on the table. Only 24 hours in the day. Most of the work offered was commission only, Affiliate Marketing drained my resources, the remunerations were too low.

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God Is Good & Faithful. #justsaying

Life of a Christian is the brochure for others to see the Christian life played out.

By submitting all areas of our life to God in prayer we receive the daily help from the Holy Spirit. Us as Born Again believers, when we invite Jesus into our life and ask God to send the Holy Spirit to us, we have this life changing experience that the Holy Spirit guides us to live the life he has intended us to and we have to die to self.

By doing this life manifests the fruit of the spirit which is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self control.

We trust in the Lord for the forgiveness of our sins and in obedience and by asking for the help of the Holy Spirit, submit all areas of our lives to God in order that we are living the life he intended for us, according to our calling.

It is very easy to try and do things in your own strength especially when you are busy. Then you forget all about God and spending time in the word. Then your path isn’t straight and you start to encounter all sort of problems and difficult times. Connecting and spending time with the wrong people who don’t know the Lord, they don’t understand your faith and sometimes try and manipulate you and subject you to their way of living and because you love them you start getting into situations you can’t handle which gives you inner stress. That in turn causes all sorts of health problems.

Seek first the Kingdom of God and then all things will be given to you. This is actually a journey of faith and a daily prayerfully walk with God.

Twenty years ago I embarked on a Bible School with Christian Outreach Centre over a two year period. I had got divorced and given up the house I had worked hard for to pursue the calling on my life.

The Pastor told me not to try and go into the Ministry because it was important to be there for my children to make sure they stayed on the faithful path. Thankfully, they were both active Christians.

I can see the fruit of the spirit in their lives. My daughter is now a voluntary Chaplain at a local suicide spot and also works as a manager in the local government. My son is also a manager in an IT Consultancy.

They are responsible adults that I am proud of and walking independently from me in their faith walk.

Now in my autumn years of life I am able to pursue something that I felt I was called to do.

As part of my service in my church it was suggested to do the Sussex Gospel Partnership Course, which runs over two years. Aim is to strengthen and expand the gospel ministry. I go to a teaching workshop once a month.

God is faithfully and puts people along side you to sharpen you, strengthen your spirit and enable you to carry out the calling on your life when you submit all your plans to him.

Recently, I’ve had a prayer warrior placed in my life. We pray over our working establishment and for difficult situations that arise at work.

I’ve also received into my life a devout Christian Success Coach – Business Mentor. Godly minded, a man after God’s own heart and reflecting the goodness of his character. Has a good track record in the business development and works with integrity. He is the missing piece in the puzzle of my life.