🥶WINTER🥶

I was really looked forward to Christmas and spending time with family and friend’s. But then Christmas Day was short and sweet and Boxing Day a friend of whom I had agreed to spend time with had the flu so I found myself alone at home.

New Years Eve, myself and two friends went out to watch our regular band “The Big Blue- Sussex Band “ with a set menu at a Curry House. It was ok, but I wouldn’t do it again, even though I left them a good review, I can see they worked hard to make everything successful for the evening. I am not used to eating so late. One of the friends insisted on a “doggy bag” then took half my meal home with her. Actually, as I am currently without a microwave, so I had to say it was acceptable!

New Years Day it was pouring with rain, so I didn’t go out. Just chilled and caught up with things I had been putting off for a while. Thankfully, I was able to work from home on the day that followed and then in the office for a couple of days the following week.

Glad to receive an electric blanket as a gift from my daughter for Christmas. Makes it easier to sleep. I have slept so much better since my move. Since COVID I had a bit of Tinnitus, it does come and go. I have very good hearing and unfortunately, can hear the hot water boiling in the cylinder when on Economy 7. So I try to get to bed early so I am asleep before this noise begins.

Then a friend gave me an electric radiator that blows hot air as well as the radiator element. This is much better and keeps the room warmer while I work. You almost need to go outside to come in again to appreciate the warmth!

I know some of my work colleagues don’t put their heating on but sit with their coats on and fingerless gloves.

I’m the only person that doesn’t have gas heating in this building that I live in, though coming in from the cold air, the room feels warm so I may benefit it a little from heat rising from their flats. Just first thing in the morning it’s harder than it would be normally to get up. Dark morning’s when I leave at 7am to go to work, then it’s dark on my return. Winter seems longer this year, thankfully we didn’t get that much snow, it’s mostly been raining and cold. Hardly any sunshine.

My car has been in the wars. Bashed the wing mirror, it cost me £100 to get repaired which was cheap as a friend sorted it out for me. Sadly, my car is looking quite rough now, with scratches on the paint work and the door handle covers have dropped off. I got my church house group to pray the car got through the MOT. Thank God it did. It is a cheap little run around that i bought when it was six years old, now it’s twelve years old and I need to keep going a few more years yet.

In the day, it’s a challenge to keep the electric bill down. Since having the Smart Meter installed at least I can see what uses the energy. I rarely use the oven. I manage to eat quite well using the Air Fryer, Slow Cooker and hob. I still have a pressure cooker, just about remember how to use it. The main point being how to let it off the heat and release naturally. The pressure drops quite fast, then It’s safe to open.

Basically, you have to cook differently when you know you don’t have a microwave to heat meals up.

I used to use a Microwave quite a bit and will get one in March, so that I can enjoy jacket potatoes again.

January was quite a quiet month for socialising, I try did get out to see Stuart Bligh sing solo and I made this video which we collaborated on via Instagram Follow Stuart Bligh on Instagram and it got over 1k views Then I have also shared it on My TikTok and my other platforms. Stuart told me he got a couple of bookings as a result. Well that was good to know, very encouraging! I’ve been supporting his band and his solo gigs for twelve years now. He always refers to me and my friends as “friends” gives us a hug when he sees us. We have been all over East Sussex to lots of country pubs, some in really remote places.

Stuart also hosts a “Blues Weekend” called “Beer, Rhythm & Blues” in Beer https://www.beerbluesfestival.co.uk

Last year the weather was bitter cold, the year before though it was lovely. As it’s in October, your guess is as good as mine to what the weather would be like!

I am planning to go somewhere warmer this year early Autumn but where I haven’t decided yet.

Should old acquaintances be forgotten and never brought to mind?

Friendship

Should old acquaintances be forgotten,

And never brought to mind?

Should old acquaintances be forgotten,

And days of long ago!

We two have run about the hillsides

And pulled the daisies fine,

But we have wandered many a weary foot

For times gone by.

We two have paddled (waded) in the stream

From noon until dinner time,

But seas between us broad have roared

Since times gone by.

And there is a hand, my trusty friend,

And give us a hand of yours,

And we will take a goodwill drink of ale

For times gone by!

And surely you will pay for your pint,

And surely I will pay for mine!

And we will take a cup of kindness yet

For times gone by!

For times gone by, my dear

For times gone by,

We will take a cup of kindness yet

For times gone by.

We two have run about the hillsides

And pulled the daisies fine,

But we have wandered many a weary foot

For times gone by.

We two have paddled (waded) in the stream

From noon until dinner time,

But seas between us broad have roared

Since times gone by.

And there is a hand, my trusty friend,

And give us a hand of yours,

And we will take a goodwill drink (of ale)

For times gone by!

And surely you will pay for your pint,

And surely I will pay for mine!

And we will take a cup of kindness yet

For times gone by!

Auld Lang Syne – Robert Burns…..,

Every Loves The 80’s ❤️

You should have been here with me!

Just come back from a weekend at Butlins, Bognor Regis.

Just was a fun weekend. There must have been nearly 10,000 people there on Saturday night! The function room we were in had 3,000 people there, so they said!

Here are a couple of reels that I took.

It was the first time I have seen Limahl – real name Christopher Hamill, though I was a fan of Kajagoogoo when it was going strong.

Beginning November

Autumn is a good time for reflection and recuperation and live life at a slower pace when you can after work in the evenings and weekends.

I’m grateful for the Hybrid working pattern, now it’s 3 days in the office and 2 working from home.

Love the drive in the countryside to work. This week it’s been dangerous with torrential rain, trees fallen down, flooded roads making traffic jams and sadly accidents. 😩

My town was gridlocked with traffic jams and flooded streets. Had to give going to the Health Club a miss in the week but thankfully got there today for Aqua Fit. While I was in the car I went shopping.

A friend went into hospital so no Wednesday Fellowship Group this week. Nice to have the night in 😜.

Dark evenings – the season of winter. I am grateful for the chance to slow the pace. Cost of living rises is a contribution to this. But since Covid doing less has been beneficial. Even when I met up with a friend who lives locally we spent a lot of time staying local, eating in and watching films at home. It has been lovely. ❤️

You can enjoy your life without spending lots of money.

Everyone is feeling the changes in our cost of living making everything so expensive.

My favourite band – http://www.the-big-blue.com/listings.html Been a follower since 2012. Going to see them play in various locations in East Sussex. I keep this as a commitment at least once a month.

I am quite good with money. I buy my food and snacks for work from the supermarket. Take sandwiches every day.

Other things I buy via subscription on Amazon – heavy goods like the cat food gets 15% off when ordered with 4 other items and is delivered too.

I understand the philosophy of paying by cash and locally – great for non chain businesses but some items these days are really hard to get hold of in the local store

For example bereavement/sympathy cards, can never buy them locally any more.

Got invited to opportunities to make addition income. Have a few meetings to listen in on this weekend.

I am just going to cook a small roast pork joint for myself to eat Will be ok for tomorrow too. Managed to buy some parsnips. I never think a roast is the same without parsnips. 😜

September

September went fast.

Ultra Challenge Day went well. Met a few new people (women) that enjoyed walking. Discussed doing a similar challenge next year. I said it would need to be flatter, enjoyed the sunshine and got a lot of exercise. My feet survived it. No blisters thankfully.

Week 2 – not so good- thought I had a Gastritis flare up, chemist gave me “Milk of Magnesia” which really seemed to give me a burning sensation in my gut. For a long time, I was unable to eat anything. Just drinking sips of water and lying in bed due to having a fever. Went back to work on the Thursday and found two others had had the same issue.

Week 3 – my long awaited vacation but due to a type of gastric flu not able to venture out too much. Most plans for this week cancelled because of the death of Queen Elisabeth.

In a way I was grateful not to have to go up to London even though I had been looking forward to seeing my Entrepreneurial friends. Not seen them in person since before lockdown/covid. Actually, I’ve not been on a train since before Covid either.

I have just been driving in my car and using the bus. Started my Sussex Gospel Partnership Bible Study Course, one a month for 2 years.

Week 3- On my week off I went to the local health club, went to watch some friends playing in their bands at various venues in Hastings.

Week 4 – Then I was fortunate to be able to work from home for a few weeks.

Discovered I had lost 10kilos. Now I can wear my super dry jacket again.

Keen to keep up the fitness regime. Making sure I actively walk or go to the gym weekly to walk on the treadmill.

New Music Duo in Eastbourne – “Ria & Roberto – Stardust Music Duo” @stardustmusicd1

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Ria & Roberto – Stardust Music Duo will be playing popular songs from the 60s to modern day. Emotive ballads to upbeat “danceable” tunes. You’re guaranteed a fun event!! Their first one this coming Saturday 18th January 2020, The Rodmill, (Flaming Grill) 1 Rangemore Drive Eastbourne East Sussex BN21 2QP

Roberto is a very experienced Italian vocalist who originated from Venice where he was wowing his audiences as a solo artist around “The City of Love”

When he came to England he was discovered singing and playing his guitar in restaurants and open mic nights in the south east.

Meanwhile Ria, better know as Maria was finding her own voice playing with a variety of musicians and played one night with Roberto. They enjoyed the experience so much and their voices complimented each other

Within a short space of time they had completed some materials that included some of their favorite songs from the 1960’s to the present day and we know they are yours too.

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