Christianity

The Funeral

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Today I attended the funeral of one of our town’s most respected gentlemen.

I was privileged to go as I was invited to sing along with three other women that also regularly sing in our church’s Music Ministry.

Before the service began, I spoke to God in my mind to ask him to give me again that special anointing that I received when I gave my life to him and had the water baptism by full immersion and was “Born Again” in 2004. I need it in my life and work to cope with situations where I have to be supportive and not to judge……,,

The first hymn – I Vow To Thee, My Country.

“I vow to thee, my country, all earthly things above. Entire and whole and perfect, the service of my love.

The love that asks no question, the love that stands the test.

That lays upon the altar the dearest and the best. The love that never falters, the love that pays the price.

The love that makes undaunted the final sacrifice.

And there’s another country I’ve heard of long ago. Most dear to them that love her, most great to them that know; We may not count her armies, we may not see her King.

Her fortress is a faithful heart, her pride is suffering.

And soul by soul and silently her shining bound increase .

And her ways are ways of gentleness and all her paths are peace.

I’m a soprano, when I start singing the presence of God comes down on me and I start tingling, so have to sway and hope no one notices my tingling. I thank God again in my mind for his presence and the gift of the voice and being able to hit those high notes and be heard above the organ. Also, now feeling refreshed and able to cope with what I’ve been called to do in my working life!

The service was very moving, I felt empathy for the family who are my friends that paid tribute to Barry’s life….

I felt a tear in the corner of my eye when she mentioned footsteps to illustrate his service in our community and how everyone will miss him.

Barry went to be with the Lord. He is home now.

In my mind at the beginning to ask again for my life the gift of God’s anointing to give me the incite to pray for people who are ill. There seems so many people suffering in my midst, as I write this a friend has gone to London to receive treatment for Cancer. Two other friends are suffering with dizziness and blood pressure which seems to be related to Covid.

Others have ongoing Mental Health needs. Other’s who this year have also lost loved ones dear to them.

I start each day with prayer to God to intercede for them.

Back to remembering the other two hymns that are my favourites “Amazing Grace” and “How Great Thou Art.”

Barry also had a heart for the lost and supported the mission The Matthew 25 Mission.

Matthew 25 v 35-36

Health Conscious People Should Know…

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That there is now a brand called “Live Good”

Committed to promoting a holistic approach to wellness, LiveGood has quickly captures the hearts of many.

People are being drawn to its high-quality products, empowering community, and life-changing opportunities.

As LiveGood celebrated its 6-month anniversary, the atmosphere was abuzz with excitement.

The journey had been filled with milestones, challenges, and moments of triumph.

The LiveGood team reflected on the incredible growth they had experienced, both as individuals and as a collective force for good.

At the heart of LiveGood’s success were the stories of transformation shared by its members.

People from all walks of life had discovered renewed energy, better health, and a renewed sense of purpose through LiveGood’s products and community.

From weight loss journeys to increased confidence, each story became a testament to the power of LiveGood’s mission.

To mark this milestone, LiveGood organized a grand celebration.

Members gathered from different corners of the world, united by their shared commitment to living their best lives.

The event was filled with laughter, inspiring speeches, and heartwarming moments as people shared their personal triumphs and the positive impact LiveGood had made in their lives.

During the celebration, LiveGood announced exciting plans for the future.

With a continued focus on innovation and providing even greater value, they unveiled new products that would further enhance the well-being of their members.

The room was filled with anticipation as everyone eagerly anticipated the next phase of LiveGood’s journey.

As the night came to a close, a sense of gratitude and pride filled the air.

LiveGood had touched countless lives, offering hope, inspiration, and a pathway to personal growth.

The 6-month anniversary celebration became a reminder of the profound impact a dedicated community can make when united by a shared vision.

Looking ahead, LiveGood knew that their journey was just beginning.

With unwavering commitment, they pledged to keep empowering individuals, spreading wellness, and transforming lives.

The LiveGood family, bound by their collective pursuit of a healthier and happier world, stood together, ready to embrace the next chapter of their extraordinary adventure.

And so, as LiveGood’s 6-month anniversary celebration concluded, the stage was set for even greater achievements.

With their sights set on making a lasting difference, LiveGood continued to shine brightly, illuminating the path to a life of health, happiness, and abundance for all who embraced its mission.

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Running On Empty

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Refresh your Spirit, Body & Soul!

This week I nearly ran out of diesel in my car, the fuel gauge has been stuck for a while and I knew I should go and fill up the car with diesel as I’d been back and forth to work and locally. Lucky, the warning beep came on to make me go and fill up.

We can find ourselves running on empty if we don’t pay attention to our spiritual lives.

As part of my self discipline I read several daily Bible plans on the Bible app daily before I leave the house or get up. Nicky Gumble, Joyce Meyer and then a topic based plan to help me grow my faith. Reads the topics with a godly friend that I feel is bringing me closer to God and my calling and fostering brotherly love in Christ. #christianfriendship

Have you ever heard anyone say “The Body Is The Temple of The Holy Spirit?

I can easily walk my 30 minutes to maintain fitness when I am working in Lewes but on the days I work from home it would be tempting to stay in and not go out. Thankfully I am blessed with the gift of a health club membership from a family member. Recently, I’ve got up earlier and had an early morning swim before I start my day.

There is a spa there too which is so rejuvenating.

Then I try and consume nutritional food and recently took up a subscription with Live Good and have been take Magnesium tablets which have helped me sleep better. I have also been having a Protein Shake, then a boiled egg and piece of toast (sour dough) for breakfast .

Last week I had a flare up with pain my stomach which resulted in sickness so I am trying to be careful with what I eat and drink now.

I’m planning to buy the Organic Coffee this month.

We have different types of coffee in our house, Lor being my favourite but it is quite pricey really and the Organic Coffee comes in a large container .

Skin wise I use Tropic which is made from Fruit & Vegetables. Such as life, I’ve always had sensitive skin and as an Empath I am sensitive in my heart and soul too. Though I get my guidance from the Holy Spirit not other divinations as some Empaths seem to.

This spiritual gift I’ve inherited from my father who past away at the young age of 67.

He didn’t have the spiritual covering that I have now.

Are You Exploring A New Direction for 2023 – 😜

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2020 – 2022 have been challenging years for all of us, but in every adversity lies the seed of an equal or greater opportunity.

We may feel depleted, emotional and overwhelmed by events which can make us feel we want to retract and do nothing. But it is important to join forces with others, seek God in prayer and push forward.

We know we must keep moving forward and remain positive and expect life to go better for us. When we remain positive and have inner conviction new doors open up.

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Juggling life with family, maintaining a prayer life, bible study and belief in myself and what I could achieve.

” I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” .

My journey as an Entrepreneur had some challenges, striving to be seen as a expert online with Social Media Marketing and earning an income to put food on the table. Only 24 hours in the day. Most of the work offered was commission only, Affiliate Marketing drained my resources, the remunerations were too low.

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The Onion

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This thought came to mind…

………….after a music weekend away with a friend I’ve know for many years.

She always felt she knew me very well we were best friends who would talk about everything and anything, but now she feels that I’ve  changed so much, but she has too.

Since Lockdown and COVID, I’ve spent time really trying to deepen my relationship with Jesus. I start my day with prayers for my closest family, my friends, Christian friends, work colleagues and people that cross my path in need.

Then throughout that day (lunch time & at home) I listen to various Bible plans on the Bible app. 

I have found this of great benefit and it has given me wisdom and strengthened my discerning spirit.

My day job is hard, listening to callers saying they are struggling financially due to our current risen energy prices in this country.  Issues with homelessness and pending homelessness due to rising rents amongst other things. 

As I am talking for over seven hours each day so I need quality time alone to recuperate. I can’t spend 100% of my spare time in the company of others without getting to a point of burn out . 

At the weekends I need some quiet time to myself. 

Over this weekend once we were awake there was no time to have that quiet time until bed time.  Then that time was noisy too. 

Tv 📺 

These days I’m only streaming my tv from apps. Not watching Reality TV or watching soaps.

I tend to read the news online.  I can’t miss the up to date info- we get told at work the state of play so we can advise callers accordingly. I listen to personal development audio books while travelling in the car, walking or washing up.

I also follow various organisations on Twitter for real time news. 

People and their personalities are like an onion – intricate with

many layers- and sometimes you need to peel back a few layers to really appreciate what they are made of. 

My friend told me she was worried about me, that I was living in a different world to her. Sadly, this turned into a heated debate.

Wisdom and discernment has effected my motivations and what I want to spend my time doing, now in my autumn years I feel life is short and I intend to spend my free time working towards something that will honour Jesus, give money to needy causes etc.

My day job role requires me to wear a mask. First layer of an onion. There are  certain ways I have to behave and appear when I interact with others. This makes me look more logical, reasonable and analytic personality even though sometimes I feel very emotional due to individuals situations.

I have to have a non bias opinion of what others do in their lives. Equality & Diversity is all around and I am not allowed an opinion on it.  Deal with people and not judge their choices. 

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I’ve spent the last 35+ years being Entrepreneurial and used the internet but most of my friends have no idea about this aspect of my life. Computers/technology haven’t been their interest but I love technology. I have learnt so much in all these years. 

Life is a journey and it’s important to move forward and embrace different opportunities and realise that our decisions to do different things shouldn’t make us wrong!

It’s important for us to say, think and speak in a positive way towards others and also about ourselves. Otherwise your life is difficult and you are drawing negativity to yourself.

I believe that Jesus has given me new friendships in the past year and I have got to know others who have been in the background of my life.

The second layer of the onion is where  your mask is taken off. People become more themselves when they are at home with  family, friends  or the ones closest to them. They are not  too cautious about how they are seen and communicate with others. In this layer we tend to take our mask off with our first connections.

The sub layers of this mid layer are personality, your values, your vision and your perspective of life.

People are here more open to talk about their real inner self.It is much easier to communicate at this layer. People are more friendly, more welcoming and open in building longer relationship.

The third layer is the deep layer which only you know yourself. It is where you hide your feelings, emotions, thoughts, desires, wishes, fears nobody can reach, It is also the layer where you hide your heart, loves, disappointments, burdens. It is called the bottom of  heart.

This layer is the sources of life time relationships and strong trust to each other.

There is another layer which is the  deepest and hidden that even people themselves  don’t know or not aware about it. Some people with so called 6th sense, can reach or read this layer. This layer has direct connection to subconscious. 



Busy-Busy-Busy

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This week went very fast, three days in the office, every other day thankfully. Getting up at 6am can be grueling. It’s been a nightmare getting to work with the torrential rain and flooding. A259 is normally a pleasant journey in the countryside but this week I see the fields all flooded with the rain alongside the river and it filled me with dread.  

Once on the A27 traffic jams due to accidents that seem to occur most mornings. I have been getting into work late! What can I do? I’m leaving my house at 7am!  

I wasn’t the only one, all my work colleagues were stuck in the same traffic jam. I’ve started to take a flask into work with my hot coffee so I can have a drink when I get there My work bag weighs a ton with my refreshments for the day and lunch pack. I’m feeling fit and eating healthily.


Got to Bannatyne’s once this week, will do my 2nd time tomorrow after church. Next week I need to take my gym stuff to work and go there on my way back from work to fit in my 3 days. These days travelling in the dark it is easier to come back via the A27. There haven’t been any flash flooding along that road yet and back in Eastbourne by

6pm.

Survived the works party- had to go directly after my working day. I got to catch up with a few people and meet some new ones. Tried to put faces to photos but it was impossible – though I sure most would say my works photo is nothing like me face to face hahah!  

Glad my work colleague met me there after all – he was able to introduce me to some people that we speak to most days. I said I’d have been lost without him.!!

I can’t be there for everyone, as everyone isn’t there for me either – all trying to get though their life challenges 

I am very lucky to have supportive Christian friends in my life that support and pray for me.

All going through challenging times at the moment with how life is financially. Some people struggling with health issues too. 

I begin each day with prayer before I touch my phone. I know that the Lord is always with me through what ever I have to endure in my life, my heart is glad with this and from this I can draw strength. Ps 16:8

October

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This month seems to have past by quite fast.

I only have one regular commitment in the week because my working weeks and days for locations are never the same. If I could do three days working from home and two in the office I could have regular commitments.

Healthwise, I try and squeeze in going to the health club either morning before work at 6am or in the early evening after working from home about 18.45pm. My daughter goes twice a week so I can go with her. A bit gruelling after work but easier going with someone else.

Spiritually –

keeping strife out of my life ‘requires willingness to constantly communicate and confront issues… prayerfully ask for the Holy Spirit’s help to be a person who avoids strife and restores peace everywhere. It’s not a simple task, people have their own inner convictions on what is right or wrong for them.

I have the calling on my life – Servant Leadership – selfless love in everything – : “(Philippians 2:4 Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others”

Galatians 5:14 – Love your neighbour as yourself – have an unselfish concern for others and do things for their benefit.

(John 13:34-35).

Love one another as I have loved you.

My daytime job as public servant in the local government requires me to uphold their services and not be judgemental which is in line with my faith. Not to discriminate against anyone even though I do not always agree with their way of life.

I walked another ten miles to raise money for Tear Fund – a charity my church – All Saints Church supports. – Tearfund Disaster Relief is a Christian charity working in more than 50 countries 🌎such as the Ukrainian humanitarian crisis, the East African food crises & the Pakistan flood crises. I raised £90 thanks to the generosity of my friends.

A great contrast in weather conditions here in Eastbourne . September was really lovely weather and I really caught the sun and it was sweltering hot.?This walk was a challenge with the blustery wind, rain and muddy conditions.

Someone gave me a bin bag to put over my head. 😀

Have to keep the fitness regime going as I’ve committed to walk again next September this time 50k this time up in London walking along the Thames.

Yesterday I walked into my town and back.

Now the clocks have gone back and it’s officially Autumn/ Winter it will be important to take a walk lunch time every day while the sun is shining or even if it isn’t otherwise the mornings will be dark and evenings too. Shorter days.

This Tuesday is All Saints’ Day (Or All Hallows’ Day in old English) which means that Monday evening is All Hallows’ Eve – known by nearly everyone these days as ‘Halloween’. Traditionally All Saints’ was a day to remember and celebrate those who have “Died in Christ”- those who have lived lives reflecting Jesus’ love and have now “gone to glory.”  Indeed, in countries such as Poland, All Saints’ Day is still celebrated by families gathering together to put candles on the graves of loved ones – and by Monday evening Polish cemeteries will be aglow with the light of millions of candles.

Our British Halloween traditions originate from village communities where local children would dress up to mock the “powers of darkness” on their last evening of influence before their defeat when All Saints’ Day dawned. 

These celebrations weren’t a sign of evil’s power – quite the opposite – they were a celebration of Christ’s victory over evil.

But modern Halloween celebrations seem to have turned in a much darker direction, with shops filled with increasingly dark and unsettling costumes. Gone is the light-hearted teasing of a defeated enemy. Instead there seems to be an embrace of wickedness, with none on the light of All Saints’ Day.

We live in a world where evil and pain really exist and whilst many will see this years Halloween celebrations as harmless fun, it may come at an unseen and unintended cost. Are we looking towards the light or are we wrapping ourselves in darkness?

See you in November….